Rejection in Reflection

So I got a rejection email today that stung me particularly strongly. I had aimed above my usual standards, it's true, and while I was realistic about the chance of receiving an acceptance, I couldn't help but hope in a small hidden part of myself that this would be the breakthrough for me. I wasn't surprised when it wasn't, but I felt rather condescended to by the actual rejection letter. After stewing about this all morning, I went back to reread the letter and to try and identify what it was about the wording that was bothering me so much.

And I discovered that it wasn't really the letter, which was nicely if ambiguously written, so much as it was just having someone somewhere decide that I was not worth her support.

Here's the actual wording, which as you can see is diplomatic and not meant to discourage and was not all that condescending either (though maybe a touch):

Thanks for sending in your manuscript. We rely on submissions like yours, since a good portion of what we publish comes to us unsolicited. Unfortunately, we won't be able to accept this one for publication—we're a very small company, and can only put out a few each year. Please feel free to submit again in the future—as our tastes are continuously changing.

Thanks again for your efforts,

This is how I read the letter (or remembered it all morning anyway):

Thanks for letting us reject your manuscript. We rely on submissions infinitely better than yours, since a good portion of what we publish comes to us unsolicited, and in your case also unwanted. We would never in a million years accept this one for publication--we're a very discerning and elite company, and can only put out the best of the best each year and yours didn't even come close. Please feel free to submit again in the future if you've had a brain transplant or maybe a complete breakdown of personality resulting in yours being replaced with one that has talent--as our tastes are continuously changing ha ha not really but we say that to make you feel better.

Thanks again for letting us reject you,

Sigh.  I'm somewhere betwixt reading between the lines and projecting, I'm afraid.

(And if you are wondering why I don't say who the publisher is, it's more about me being ashamed at having aimed above myself than about protecting her. She did, after all, write a very nice rejection letter.)

Rereading what I've just written I think to myself, "Jeez, Jessica, what did you want her to say?" Yes, I wanted her to say Yes, but given that she can't, there's not a good way for her or anyone to reject something as personal as poetry. As personal to me as my poetry. No matter what she says, I'm going to hear something else from inside myself, and doesn't that suck for her? And for me? Sure does.

I'm going to have to try to do better next time. Because there will be a next time. There could be one now, if I go and check my inbox, which, excuse me, I'm going off to do.

Your Handwriting as a Font

Have you ever wanted to make your own handwriting into a usable font? Jojoebi Designs shows you how.

My handwriting is illegible enough that I won't bother, but if you do, let me know how it works out.

Mary in the Cloud

Wave Books has uploaded lectures and talks by Mary Ruefle. Wow.

Possible post titles are still popping into my head. For example, I should have put this post with the previous one and called them together Emily in the Ether, Mary in the Cloud.

Emily Online: Digital Dickinson

Amherst College is opening its archives of Emily Dickinson's writings online to anyone, worldwide. Have a peek at her handwriting, her original unusual lineations which defy typesetting, and also her correspondence and even recipes.

Okay, I've been downtown to do errands since writing the above paragraph, but possible titles for this post keep popping into my head: How about e-Emily. Or Download Dickinson.

Do you have any?

Line Break Lists Open Readings

The Line Break, a Poetry and Wine Blog, has updated its list of presses with open readings. Handily indexed as to the month in which the open reading begins, as well as with a list of always-open open readings, this is a great resource. Plus there are links to other lists, such as book publications contests, small & independent presses, etc.

A great resource for finding a home for your work in this new year.