tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post4678569739228213900..comments2023-12-10T13:16:58.731+09:00Comments on Axis of Abraxas: A Poetry Blog: Fixing the Fixings for ThxgvgJessica Goodfellowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07561656986278259434noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-32856017126798267722011-11-22T11:44:26.714+09:002011-11-22T11:44:26.714+09:00Mari, I finished my shopping yesterday, and began ...Mari, I finished my shopping yesterday, and began the baking today for our feast tomorrow. Things are moving along!<br /><br />You have a good holiday too!<br /><br />JessicaJessica Goodfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07561656986278259434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-80754371030735118202011-11-22T10:56:42.787+09:002011-11-22T10:56:42.787+09:00That was weird -- I typed "my kids" and ...That was weird -- I typed "my kids" and I don't have kids! And, yes, you're wise to leave the o-sechi ryori to your MIL. Very wise.<br /><br />Have a good holiday!Marihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05211528951336098923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-67660413002743673642011-11-19T18:20:15.291+09:002011-11-19T18:20:15.291+09:00Mari, I can so relate to your mother. I don't ...Mari, I can so relate to your mother. I don't do o-seichi ryori for New Years. I let my mother-in-law do that. Food outside of one's own culture, especially celebratory food, can be so daunting. Thank goodness we have other options!Jessica Goodfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07561656986278259434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-50732076091248622252011-11-19T15:34:24.527+09:002011-11-19T15:34:24.527+09:00I hear you about creating memories for my kids. My...I hear you about creating memories for my kids. My Japanese mother attempted a T-giving turkey early in my life and was so traumatized by the effort (and the results, I suspect) that she never made one again! From then on we always celebrated the holiday at other people's homes. As an adult I've made an effort to have a home-cooked meal at home or with friends; it's worth the work, I agree.Marihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05211528951336098923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-12968193417065705732011-11-17T17:36:39.500+09:002011-11-17T17:36:39.500+09:00Hi Mari,
I bet there are places we could go out to...Hi Mari,<br />I bet there are places we could go out to Thanksgiving dinner even here in Kobe--the Kobe Club probably, if not a restaurant somewhere. I still like the fuss of making the dinner though; it's all part of it, and the kids are small enough I want that to be part of what Thanksgiving is, the all-day cooking, the smells wafting through the house, waiting for company to arrive, all that. Someday I'm sure I'll be ready for a premade dinner or a dinner out though; that's for sure!Jessica Goodfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07561656986278259434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-74000991463799933272011-11-17T16:48:11.542+09:002011-11-17T16:48:11.542+09:00Hi Jessica -- my father and his wife used to buy a...Hi Jessica -- my father and his wife used to buy a pre-roasted turkey at Kinokuniya in Tokyo because their oven was too small and they didn't want the fuss. Often they would simply go to a restaurant (amazingly, some Tokyo hotels and clubs serve Thanksgiving dinner!). Luckily for me, someone else will be dealing with the turkey this year. But I'll be thinking of you, shlepping up those Kobe hills with your various bags and parcels, dreaming of Turkish pilaf. Enjoy your holiday with your family!Marihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05211528951336098923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-50748074541449551622011-11-17T08:42:00.800+09:002011-11-17T08:42:00.800+09:00It is a challenge here, isn't it Chris? I live...It is a challenge here, isn't it Chris? I live in walking distance from 5 international markets (some the walking is far, but do-able) and I will have visited all of them before I have all the makings for Thanksgiving. It takes a lot of time and effort, and is just impossible for people without the resources my city happens to have. No point being frustrated in making Thanksgiving though. You can still be thankful without all the extras.Jessica Goodfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07561656986278259434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-1542935698266920132011-11-16T20:58:00.191+09:002011-11-16T20:58:00.191+09:00One of my living-in-Japan-goals used to be making ...One of my living-in-Japan-goals used to be making a turkey-day dinner here, but I have given up. Don't want to deal with the tiny oven and have no patience for piece meal shopping. Plus I'm farther away from the main shopping areas, which would intensify my frustration. Maybe someday Zen and I will cook a turkey in America in grandma's huge kitchen.chrisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-67133877951155797832011-11-16T14:48:18.717+09:002011-11-16T14:48:18.717+09:00Les, there is something democratic about Thanksgiv...Les, there is something democratic about Thanksgiving shopping, isn't there? Doesn't feel like it here though. Ran into a mother from the elementary school when lugging home my frozen turkey and had a long discussion with her about why why why was I doing this....Jessica Goodfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07561656986278259434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-3922590927350243302011-11-16T14:46:03.221+09:002011-11-16T14:46:03.221+09:00I almost didn't post this yesterday, because i...I almost didn't post this yesterday, because it wasn't poetry-related, but all your kinds responses make me glad I did.<br /><br />Jeannine, what good ideas you have. Ham is harder to come by here than turkey (like a nice big ham-shaped ham--sliced ham we got). Duck and quail and pheasant, I'd have to look around for that too. Wild boar, we got though. And I can get turkey legs, maybe a breast, if I look around.Jessica Goodfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07561656986278259434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-13060919597080365152011-11-16T13:04:23.575+09:002011-11-16T13:04:23.575+09:00I love this description too! If I can recommend my...I love this description too! If I can recommend my husband and my solution to the "gigantic turkey our oven is to small to cook" problem (we often rent small apartments here on the West coast...) we have tried:<br />--buying a skin-on, bone-in turkey breast and two turkey legs. Bang - everyone's favorite meat pieces, no fuss, much less cooking time, etc.<br />--trying an alternative to turkey. We've tried duck, quail, and pheasant! <br />--I don't know about your family, but my family of origin had ham as often as they had turkey for Thanksgiving...so that is considered an acceptable substitute! Now, to find a tiny ham...Jeanninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16419593830749483323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-81896993365997910622011-11-16T09:59:13.917+09:002011-11-16T09:59:13.917+09:00I adore going shopping around Thanksgiving, I love...I adore going shopping around Thanksgiving, I love that everyone, regardless of demographic category buys practically the same foods, seeing all the matching market baskets just makes me happy!Leslie Jamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11203945612194966521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-88497509443354193712011-11-16T08:52:12.776+09:002011-11-16T08:52:12.776+09:00Hi Kristin,
Thanks for taking time to read my blo...Hi Kristin,<br /><br />Thanks for taking time to read my blog and comment on it. I suppose you are right: there are elements of poetry in a Thanksgiving celebrated in Japan. Thank you for using your fine sensibilities to point that out to me.<br /><br />Happy Thanksgiving to you!Jessica Goodfellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07561656986278259434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1204727386532339291.post-72485818170455488612011-11-15T18:58:47.712+09:002011-11-15T18:58:47.712+09:00I think your post has lots of poetry potential! T...I think your post has lots of poetry potential! The pilaf that your kids call Turkish, the canned pumpkin shortage, the wonderful juxtapositions of being an American celebrating a quintessentially American holiday in Japan, celebrating a holiday that celebrates survival and bounty without a car which means you can only procure the bounty bit by bit . . . yes, I see several poems!Kristin Berkey-Abbotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16841824206762029363noreply@blogger.com